Allright , it´s been a while.
As this is my personal blog and fully independent from my professional blog, i am going to let go of something which buggers me a lot and i have no idea how to deal with.
Very recently, a someone i have known for ages and has never ever showed any unexpected behavior, suddenly turns up at home with medicine to start a transgendering process. This an adult man which has never been seen in womens clothes prior to this process, neither at home nor in public and has never indicated he has had any interests whatsoever in this . He has neither (as far as i know of) shown up at a Gay Pride Parade to support other LGBT .
Of course i am totally in a shock and still surprized beyond belief, but am trying to take this as an "one day at time" thing and am trying my best despite my shock to talk to the man and gain some insight on what is happening. Still i get accused to be "unsupportive" , "prejudiced" Etc , which just adds to the depression i am currently feeling over this.
Would it really be right of this family member to burst out with such accusations, even if i realize he might not be fully in balance due to said medication himself ?
Would it be right of me to encourage him to try and take it easy ? I know i am no expert in this matter.
Am i just too sensitive and should take it easy myself ?
It goes without saying that my mind is like a whirlpool of questions which i do not even know how to ask properly. Being straightly heterosexual myself this is a completely new experience which i have no idea how to deal with.
Enough for now,
Bewildered beyond belief;
Chick
